Wednesday, December 4, 2013

The "B" Word






Playground bullies can sense fear. Even when they’re just little kids. When you’re a manager you can create fear anytime you want - just because you’re the boss. If you want to know whether you are a bully boss, just ask. If you are you reluctant to ask then we both know the answer is yes. Maybe it’s a big yes or a little one, but yes is still yes. True this: Everything about bullying is bad. In case you need one, here’s a review:
  1. At worst, people probably hate you for it. Not mere dislike, but genuine, Webster-dictionary defined hatred. At best, they just really, really resent and dislike you. NOBODY likes a bully


  2. Hatred is gigantically distracting. Worse than a Facebook, Twitter and eBay distraction combined. It’s probably more like a LinkedIn or Monster distraction because they’re looking for a new job.


  3. Bullying is a power thing. For you, by you and about you. And I promise you this: people laugh at you behind your back because bullying behavior by someone older than 8 years old is ridiculous. And it’s horrible when it’s aimed at you.


  4. It doesn’t work. It serves no purpose. It creates tension and stress. If you believe even a little bit that people matter, then surely you must know how wrong it is to use your power of position as a weapon.


  5. See #2
Here’s the solution: Stop the bullying. Completely and right now. Go to the person you trust most at work, confess your bad behavior and ask for help. Ask to be told when you are bullying. Tell your staff they can go directly to your bully policeperson and report your bullying behavior. When it is told to you the only response allowed is, “I apologize”.
Save yourself. Save your staff. Stop being a bully. Then we can say, “Bully for you”.

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