Monday, November 18, 2013

Go First




Think about the last disagreement you had with anyone. Probably a loved one or a friend. If the outcome was an agreement about some behavior that “has to change”, there’s a common occurence that often follows. We’ve both agreed that the behavior has to change - and we believe it will change - but (be very honest here) we think that the other person should change first. Often, that's because we think they're wrong - not us - and therefore of course they should change first.
As a manager, when you want a different outcome do you often think that your staff should change their behavior? I suggest that if there is changing to be done, then YOU should be the one who steps up and changes first. As yourself what you can do differently that would cause the team to respond differently?
We can’t control others anyway; we can only control ourselves. And I believe that deeply despite the over-bearing control freak that you work for because hard as she tries, she can’t control you, right?

Deciding to “go first” is leadership at its finest.

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